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now let me ask you something:
don’t you think that most rapist are smart enough to not make videos of their crime?
Of course you won’t find video or photo evidences of such crimes.
this should not mean that we distrust every victim because they have no photo evidence. Because expecting such a ridiculous hard to get evidence would just be rape apologistic from judges.
as well you being 14 doesn’t give you any high ground in anyway, it moreso just says that you lack the experience in life for proper judgement of things.
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Streaming is part of their job. Obviously they show their best behaviour.
It’s just like when some bad stuff (with evidence) about an actor comes to light and fans are defending him with things like “I met him once at a convention and he was super nice, so he must be innocent!”
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Just remember, you dont know them nor know anything about them. The only thing you see in the streams is them playing their character/what they want you to see so ppl like them and drop $ on them.
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only reason i can think of that would push you to write this is that you’re either the actual dude himself behind that profile, or you’re a 13 yo Tik Tok fan. In all cases, please don’t blame victims. Specially for an " artist " who put on a persona, and who you don’t know personally.
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I hope this is bait, based on the user just joining today to write this comment and because of the smug emoji at the end of their paragraph… but then I have sadly witnessed far too many “I like XY artist’s work, therefore they can’t be bad people and all accusations must be fake / lies”. And VK fans especially are somewhat naive about accepting that their “smol uwu beans” bandomen could be bad people…
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Who still says sh- like that in 2026?
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The primary consequence of declaring your undying “honmei” love for one particular idol/bandguy too early is that you may inevitably have to make a choice between going to bat for whatever shit he’s accused of, or acknowledge that he’s probably not the guy you thought he was and risk becoming disillusioned with the scene.
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Pro tip: dont defend rapists. It won’t end well for you. If your honmei is a rapist, get a new honmei.
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I agree with this but like many good and talented people in the scene are very accused of stuff like this and not just for like being rapists but for like being pedophile or for whatever is going on some are like proven but like some are just theories and yknow now it’s kinda hard to find someone you adore and admire and that aren’t like problematic or just with a bad image so yeah but if like in this case since vkei has gotten more popular it’s better to stay as a listener and not a fan in many like occasions and yeah but I’m not saying in all your opinion is very valid tho.
L take. These men were accused of sleeping with and impregnating minors. We dont defend that here.
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he’s not even that talented for y’all to be doing all that ( nor in any cases anyway tbh )
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I fully agree with Zeus.
Also, in the end, no one can stop you from still listening to them. But maybe be aware that people will judge you for it!
These guys are not even VK, they are idols from what I know
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@misukarisachan
As a non-14-year-old fan I can only suggest you to do these these three things:
- Print out your post
- Put it in a 7-10 year time capsule
- Unearth it, read it and I can only hope that you’ll come up to more mature realization.
In any case - wish you all the best.
@secret-0bscure meanwhile, i can’t really cherry pick any part of your post (especially with english sentence structrure cramming everything into a single sentence). But in short - stay a listener and wait till those accusations are cleared. If not? Well, fuck’em and don’t get involved for your own sake.
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Maybe a little PS to @misukaisachan:
It’s okay for a 14-year old to dream about an adult man. It’s not okay for an adult man to dream about a 14-year old, let alone act on it. These are very different things, YOUR daydreaming, maladaptive or not, is not relevant to the situation and you should learn to seperate those things.
Also @secret-0bscure: who are these men who are wrongfully accused of ‘stuff like this’? Statistically, it is WAY more likely for an accusation to be true than not. Also ‘theories’ may be harmful, but are to be seperated from (wrongful) accusations.
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This all here is why you shouldn’t have idols/heroes. Stop putting people on a pedestal. Just enjoy the music.
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As I said uhh (btw I’m sorry if I understood this wrong) but like I am not disagreeing with anyone but I also agree with your opinion since people don’t just accuse bandmen for no reason but some examples could be Yoshiatsu since people say he like impregnated a girl and didn’t pay for an abortion or like just took off the condom without consent, I believe this is a theory or rumor since for what I’ve been searching I never saw if it was confirmed or not also like way back in like 2021 when I (Gulu Gulu) was like accused of being a pedophile cause of his guitar I’ve been seeing people in 2023 also talk about is some defending him some accusing him or I’m not sure if accusing is the right word for the situation same with the Yoshiatsu case I never saw any information of it being confirmed or not I know these are kinda old but these are just examples there are probably many bandmen I don’t know about who probably got accused of something, also again I am not disagreeing with you I am sorry if I get any information wrong I base this off of what I’ve seen already
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I’ll take this advice I apologize for like any misunderstandings it’s probably true I shouldn’t get involved into stuff like these
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yes I know I probably got that misunderstood what I meant was that like since vkei has gotten more popular especially on tik tok many people have been mislead on the scene and it got to a point many people on tik tok considered Zolpidem as vkei I’m sorry for some misunderstandings I’m trying to like go on a point but also I do get off topic sorry again.
Off-topic, well-intentioned advise:
For better readability, it would be really helpful if you would use more punctuation. It is kind of exhausting to read this whole wall of text without any periods or something similar.
(And way less usage of the word “like” would also be a good idea).
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