Hello there. 
I just found this forum and I’m glad I did. I’ve been into vkei since 2011/12 so for a while already.
I’m 28 and live in Germany at the time.
Many of my favourite bands disbanded already, which is to be expected when being in this fandom for so long.
Here are some active bands that I love right now:
Mamireta
DAMNED
Zera
BLAZE
Dokubari
KARISOME
niche
DRUGS
HUMAN ERROR
KIZU
AZAVANA
NICOLAS
Thanks for reading~
Azavana! 
(I’m in for Zera, DRUGS and Kizu as well, need to check out Nicolas still.)
Hello.
Right from Germany as well.
What are the bands you liked/loved that already disbanded?
I see NICOLAS i like 
Nicolas has some great songs
Here they are: Signal, gulu gulu, llll-Ligro-, BORN, Mejibray, DEATHGAZE (Well not really disbanded but they are not releasing new stuff), Dadaroma, Awoi, Hitchcock, DELUHI, Je:Nova, Biosphia
I’m in for parts of Mejibray (for me it was hit or miss depending on the songs) and certainly for Dadaroma (even though not all songs as well).
I’m going to get for Nicolas at some point. Not right now, I guess, I barely know how to make it listening to everything I want to listen to (which’s mainly Azavana for a while xDD) and everything I want to try out. But I have that on my mental list.
ow III Ligro and Signal Biosphia okay okay 
They were peak 
signal was an incredible band, i really do miss them 
but welcome! 
Another Awoi fan 
Hello there and welcome. Love all the bands you named so far 
I miss Awoi every day. Still looking for a band that can fill that void 
Awoi was unique. I look for it too 
There was Mikage which came close but the band suffered from production issues.
They were Awoi session band where they covered a bunch of awoi songs and later formed Mikage.
Right now the vocalist is doing secret solo activities. 
I’m waiting for Otogi to come back one day ;c
See the topic I posted below:
He performed so far I think 2 times with Ryo