I love when that happens!
omg an hour after a fight somewhere down the street (“GIMME-MA-FUCKIN-KEYS WHERE ARE MAH KEEEEYS! - /slap/ - AAUUUGHHHH!!! - I didn’t hit ya, I DID NOT HIT YA”) vaguely same spot now radiates lé sounds of 1999 mylene farmer classics
somebody getting that apologetic dick overnite i guess
(they’re back fighting, this time very audibly drunk. a week ago shit was freezing cold and delightfully quiet 24/7, but recent warming up spring weather got the lovebirds out.)
(( she crashed the car in a building corner shortly after midnight… I haven’t heard a car crash in so long, I legit had no clue they sound like someone power-crunched on a very big potat chip. hunny i kinda sympathize w. whatever goes on in there, but u rly should not operate moving vehicles in populated spaces… ))
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Based on all I have seen as a psychology student I SO wish people wouldn’t take professionals of psychology so seriously, bc holy crap truly I have seen the worst of humankind practicing it.
They say they are modern day priests yet no one is gonna bat an eye if they do anything wrong or immoral and their reference sources r sometimes blatantly deterministic … eugenics even. And then sometimes it’s scary antisocial
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I’ve even been seeing one of these.
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Indeed, human nature doesn’t just change because one goes to school and acquires a title.
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@Kaishiki apologies 
@CAT5 yes. And perhaps more importantly, not everyone has work ethics. What I mean is a lot of people will use their knowledge and “power” to push an agenda going as far as ostracizing clients. It’s also forbidden to use your knowledge in certain ways that those working in marketing and gambling often do. Let alone how it is used as a tool pro establishment 
I think theres a whole discussion to be had but I am too sick and unemployed and vulnerable to bother with it rn zzz
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It’s not you who has been trying to manipulate me, so there’s no need.
I realized what that therapist was trying to do and she didn’t get what she wanted but I don’t trust them anymore. I’m certain she wasn’t even aware of what she was doing.
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I think I finally convinced my boyfriend to go to a concert together. 
Thank you Hakuei
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that cursed teaser drops on the same day as this
there-re-no-coincidences.mp4
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Well on behalf of them that is 
Not only some therapists have an agenda, there is also the issue that much like doctors and other pro therapists are people with bills to pay 
the good ones know how to manage BUT a good chunk are overexerting themselves. Imagine yourself enjoying a yearly vacation and sudden you are expected to save someone who wants to off themselves - this is NOT how our profession is supposed to work but some do that so people misunderstand.
As someone who has no horse in this race because my interest in psych was never being a therapist and my license expired years ago I just feel it’s my duty to inform that therapists are people who feel exhausted and have bad days so if it didn’t click don’t beat yourself over it. I had my fair share of shitty experiences too
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It had nothing to do with that in the first place. She tried to use it as an excuse but first of all it was her personality which was the problem. Emotional manipulation has nothing to do with being overworked. It’s just something you do or don’t (and even if there are impulses but you are aware of them it’s your decision whether you play them out or don’t).
But since you neither know all details (not about the explicit situation nor the one where I live) I don’t think it’s something we need to elaborate. I won’t feel sorry for her because she misused her power in her position over me. It were typical narcissistic behavioral patterns (which doesn’t mean she’s a narcissist) that I recognized and cut myself completely off right that moment emotionally (actually I more or less froze and just waited for what she would be doing next or when I could act again).
But anyway, that’s been years ago.
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Had the fattest grin in a while because of this clip on IG. I’m thankful for the two wonderful bands behind this upcoming spilt 7”
Sorry but that wasn’t what I meant at all, just said that therapists get exhausted and are human too and therefore take what they say with a grain of salt - to whoever reads 
my initial point was exactly that some “mistakes” are NOT accidents but rather a lack of work ethics which seems to have been your case and yeah sorry about that. Good thing you were able to notice and no I wasnt trying to excuse anything even because 1) no idea what went on 2) I anonymized my internet presence because mh pros so count on me against em
tldr unfortunately even mh has fake ass bitches in it (and dunno what happened to u so sorry But Also u & me bro )
Editing but my level of breakdown is such that I have been insomniac all night wondering wtf I said that would have given the idea that I was defending this person I never saw lol guess I will just do my best to remain logged off so as to not inadvertently anger or affect anyone despite concert hype pls mods let us terminate our accounts 
I have deleted my accs mostly everywhere bc 2025 internet got my ass like
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^ I feel like me and @zeus have said this a billion times by now, but social media is designed to facilitate and incentivize that sort of engagement.
This is why I also stopped dealing with a lot of social media and severely limited my online interactions because social media has primed so many people to be narcissistic and unnecessarily hostile that it’s not even worth it.
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It has for like 10 years plus now I feel. I’m autistic so narcissistic is my most hated buzzword because people will say “talking about/to yourself in an attempt to connect ie being self-referential is narcissistic” so I take it with a grain of salt (ie. Hasn’t been my experience but maybe it’s just my communication style, OMG LOOK MAH SHINY ROCK etc) but at least since the pandemic and for at least 6 years I have started to doubt my ability to speak English FOR REAL because sometimes people DO NOT get what I meant. It happened most on Reddit and then it adds to the depression for being sick and jobless and I go AHHHH NOOO THAT’S NOT IT NOOOOOO and freak out.
The tl;dr is that much like years ago @CAT5 I keep fighting for the function Delete account 
I hate to leave on a sour note everytime tbh but I don’t get communication in today’s web or even today’s web so it will keep happening while I have an acc lol
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When it comes to therapy, I only trust CBT.
other than this forum, i don’t use social media at all because i was spending more time trying to wade through the vitriol and passive aggressiveness than making friends. bluesky was good for a week and then it made me realize i don’t have much in common with anyone at all 
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So true… I deleted threads a second time some days ago because it just made me angry every time I opened it. Also limited my twitter use some years ago. Made me feel so miserable. Now I only check for vk stuff occasionly.
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We will say this over and over and gather new converts each time.
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