But I have taken 2 shots with the same band before where we would be fighting each other based on nothing in particular other than Pinterest memes, so I figured it was something in the same direction but edgier
in 2019 a young woman stabbed her host in a hotel room and the reason given was that she just loved him too much. the host also said he didn’t blame her or something like that. it was was a big deal on the news for several weeks.
I imagine an emotionally stable and well adjusted individual is able to cry a little bit every once in a while when they feel like it. That, sadly, is not me and I have to bottle up every single thing until I hit a breaking point and get a two hour crying spell every five to ten years.
Please let me at least get a good night’s sleep so I can hopefully feel better tomorrow.
I feel you on that one because I haven’t had a good night’s sleep in years. I survive on around 4 hours of sleep every night and short naps during the day.
last time I cried of actual sadness for a whole hour, I felt terrible physically !! for a week. Somehow transformed into a anxiety attack that kept being felt physically for a week ( feeling weak, left hand tingling, not being able to do a lot of effort or i’d feel disconected to my body ) ( now that i’m enumerating all those things it sounded pretty alarming lol I wonder if it wasn’t something more serious :l … )
but then I had my period a week after and it was as if I was lying lol
all that to say that since that day, i’ve been " managing " my emotions and trying not to get overwhelmed by it to not be in that situation again :l so maaaaaybe it’s a bit of a " good " thing even tho it doesn’t seems like it
I wish I could cry the way I used to. But lately, whenever I cry, the aftermath is a horrible headache that’s so unbearable it makes me want to bang my head against the walls. Last night I cried in the shower because I was exhausted and simply didn’t have the energy left to cook dinner for two. As a result, I woke up twice during the night with a headache. If I ever end up having a stroke, I honestly won’t be surprised.
Sorry for the terrible off-topic message in advance. I’m thinking about leaving my profession, and I’m already mentally and physically unable to work with people who don’t see me as a human being and ignore my comments and requests, because admitting that a foreign woman is right seems to be worse than a kick in the balls.
Could you please tell me if, in 2026, it’s still possible to change careers and switch to remote work? I’ve worked with my hands all my life, and apart from medicine I don’t know or can’t really do anything else…
I’m a medical typist.
Not working anymore for health reasons and I’m far from being in Japan but it’s a job that at least involves the opportunity of working remote in relation to medicine to some extent. Depends on the local conditions though.
The work culture depends a lot on the country and then company. I am not sure about Japan but at least in NAM, the older companies still aren’t fully bought-in with WFH even when they make sense for the work. At least the countries in general are open to it. We just need the boomers to retire out for the work environment to change and process out lingering old work policies. This may be harder to do though as apparently the younger workforce is not as skilled so maybe they are the most in need of an on-site workplace.
Like any other career change, it is a risk you have to take but definitely possible to find the right job