Like get rid of all of the songs and start over, trash and delete them and start over.
Watched dune. What a worthless movie
Will watch batman, Its going to be the same
Watched The terminal, was gud
Will watch when the trumpet fades, its going to be the same
I loved The Batman and it’s 3 hour long slow burn detective style film.
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So I have a friend who is a girl. We’re just friends and nothing more. Her boyfriend gets angry with her because of our friendship. Is this like normal? I get where he’s coming from but still I find this behavior childish and the dude’s 42. He’s 18 years older than her and me.
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Sounds like he feels insecure
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What are you? If you’re male then that’s insecurity, if you’re female and he’s worried about that then he just a pathetic man who probably sucks in bed. 
I’m a male. I just don’t know how to explain to the guy that I’m not interested in her romantically. We’ve known each other for 9 years and I don’t want to stop talking to her just because her man isn’t happy about that
Not your problem, he’ll never believe you, and if you’re closer in age to her than he is then he’s going to be insecure as hell.
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If he wanted that it were about time for her to reconsider her relationship with him. And if she stays with him it might be better for you and your own good to reconsider your friendship with her, no matter how much it hurts.
I learnt one thing, when people get put to decide between love and friendship they cling to love, whyever, especially when that comes with such a toxic relationship.
If he can’t trust her he might be insecure and that might be a result of negative experiences in life (I have trust issues so I can relate to problems with trusting, however I can’t relate to his problem though). Nevertheless that is something he has to overcome not to put that as a burden on others.
However if he does it’s up to others how they deal with it.
So next it is about her. And if she goes by what I see too often and sticks with the relationship with him, she might regret that later but it was her decision.
I just think, if you get into the situation to decide between being pushed aside or taking her decision for him as a final end, sticking with people usually ain’t healthy for oneself. Because if she does that once, it’s very likely she’ll do that again. Because it’s about a love relationship vs. a friendship.
And no, basically that’s not normal. Gender doesn’t matter when it comes to friendship.
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I’m reminded of this in this situation
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To offer a different perspective. I had almost entirely female friends in my early childhood and a fair chunk of them as I got older. However, I got into a few situations where I was inadvertently sending mixed messages because of my kindness or enthusiasm towards them (like getting excited over common interests), and felt terrible because of it. I also had to clear up several misunderstandings throughout my life that I was somehow gay because I could simply maintain platonic relationships with women, because that was just normal for me, or at least should be normal, I think? I don’t really feel anything until there is reciprocity… Dunno
I feel like this is going to get me in trouble in the future, but I seem to be fine so far.
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On an entirely different subject, I dread tomorrow as it’s Mother’s Day which is always hard because my girlfriends mother died on Mother’s Day, but tomorrow is worse because her mother died of ovarian cancer Mother’s Day 2005 which was May 8th when she was 8 years old and this is the first time it’s been on May 8th since we started dating five years ago (the last time it was May 8th was 2016.) Thankfully it won’t be on May 8th again until 2028.
I’m so sorry to hear that, that’s unbelievably hard. Wishing you both very much love.
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Felt a lot of kinship with Nic Cage in “The Unbearable Weight of Massive Talent;” a running joke in the movie is his affinity for the movie “The Cabinet of Dr. Caligari,” and there was a good handful of lines where he professed his love for Caligari to anyone who would listen. Maybe I should actually watch that movie to enrich my ~cultural palate~, but it’s funnier for me to imagine that Nic Cage, too, just wants to spread the word of his favorite underrated VK band.
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I’ll definitely check it eventually! It’s influenced enough things that I like - it’s just hard to commit to silent films, regardless of how canonized they are.
Very tempted to sign up for Karyu’s fanclub to see what is hiding in that 3,300円 monthly price tag. It just says videos and blogs are exclusive to the premium version so maybe recording videos or something. 
I just watched the silent one at 2x on youtube and it was really good, I was surprised, but facial expressions and writing has to be top notch when you can’t convey with your voice; also Lil Dagover was a gorgeous woman, no wonder she was the most popular actress in the Weimar Republic. I also found that they apparently made a version in 2005. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Cabinet_of_Dr.Caligari(2005_film)
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Every year. Stay classy, Canada.
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Nic talked about how much he loves silent film and Charlie Chaplin etc in his reddit AMA last month besides the fact he loves Ghibli films.
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